Ok, well if you're a boy and you feel the need to read this - be my guest but a warning that it contains Women's Business. Ok? Consider yourself warned.
I've wanted to blog about this before but didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Having had a baby and heard many discussions about things before considered "private" as well as having been prodded, checked and more by total strangers [the badge may have said Dr or midwife but still :)] I'm feeling a bit better about sharing.
For the past 6 years or so I've stopped buying disposable menstrual products. A friend of mine made her own cloth pads and convinced me to give it a go. At first when she told me, I was grossed out. Its stinky and gross right? Plus I'm a heavy bleeder. Over the next few months though as I looked at the pile of rubbish I created every month - just because of a natural cycle, it started to bother me. So, I bought some sheets and towels from the opshop, cut up an old worn pair of pyjamas and made myself a few pads. Within a couple of months I'd switched completely to cloth. Interestingly it DIDN'T smell. I have since found out that the odour associated with menstrual cloths actually comes from a chemical reaction that happens within the pad as a result of bleaches used to make them white! Unbelievable!! While many people sell cloth pads online, its easy to make your own. A seller on madeit.com.au has a
PDF available for $8 that has a few patterns and good instructions in it. I made up my own pattern, with removable towelling inserts [so I can change how much absorbency I may think I need, and it makes washing and drying faster. Google 'cloth pads' for more links and ideas on making them, or contact me and I'll make you some [if you're in Australia] :)
The next year I bought a cup [called
Mooncup] - a silicone cup device that catches the 'flow' in a similar way to a tampon. It means you're comfortable, dry and there is less washing to do. Completely brilliant!!
A few years ago there were a couple of options for cups - but looking online today I found many different brands, designs and pretty colours!!! I'm excited :) I think that it is fantastic that we can have good options that don't create waste. There a lot of sellers of these devices now - possibly the best site I could find is a UK one called
Feminine Wear with a ton of different options and prices. Silicone cups have another benefit in that they have not been associated with Toxic Shock Syndrome, because the surface of the cup doesn't give bacteria anywhere to sit and do their dirty work. Yay for that!
I will certainly be encouraging Addie to use these great [dare I say better] alternatives when [in many years!] it is her turn to figure out how this all fits into her world.
Mmm, I don't feel like I've been very eloquent about all of this. I'd like to hear what you think, and what it is that might stop you from using these over the disposable "sanitary" options.